A story
Kenz and the Sandcastle by the Sea
The sea was singing its swishy song when Kenz arrived at the beach with Baba and Mama. She wore her pink sundress and carried her favorite red bucket and a small metal spade. Her curly hair blew in the salty wind, and her pink headband held on tight.
"Today," said Kenz, "I am going to build the biggest sandcastle in the whole world."
Baba laughed. "The whole world is very big, habibti."
"Then it will be a very big castle," said Kenz.
She chose a spot close to the water, where the sand was smooth and wet and shiny. She took off her shoes and dug her toes into the cool sand. It felt like soft, cold cake.
First she filled her bucket with wet sand. She patted the top flat, pat, pat, pat. Then she turned the bucket over, quickly, and lifted it up very slowly.
A perfect tower stood on the beach!
"One tower!" she shouted.
She made a second tower, and a third, and a fourth. She dug a little path between them with her spade. She pressed seashells into the walls for windows: white shells, pink shells, and one striped shell like a tiny fan. She even found a long feather from a seagull and stuck it on the top of the tallest tower like a flag.
"It is a castle for a sea princess," Kenz told Mama.
"It's beautiful," Mama said. "You worked so hard."
Kenz stood back to look. She was so proud that she hopped from one foot to the other.
Then the sea sang a little louder. Swishhh.
A wave came running up the sand. It was a small wave, but it was very busy. It ran right into the first tower and knocked it down. Then it pulled back to the sea, taking half of the path with it.
"No!" cried Kenz. "Go away, wave! That is my castle!"
Another wave came. Swishhh. This one took two shell windows and the seagull feather.
Kenz's lip wobbled. Her eyes filled with tears. She stamped her bare foot in the wet sand.
"It's not fair! I worked so hard, and the sea is breaking everything!"
She sat down with a bump and cried into her hands.
Baba came and sat next to her. He did not tell her to stop crying. He just put his big warm arm around her shoulders and waited until her crying became small hiccups.
"It is very sad when something we made gets broken," he said. "Your castle was wonderful."
"The sea is mean," sniffed Kenz.
Baba looked out at the water. "The sea is not mean. The sea is just being the sea. It comes in and it goes out, every day, all over the world. It does not know about castles."
Kenz wiped her nose. "Then how can anyone build a castle at the beach?"
Baba smiled. "That is a very good question. What do you think? What could we do differently?"
Kenz thought. She looked at the place where her castle had been. It was wet and flat and full of foam. Then she looked further up the beach, where the sand was drier and the waves never reached.
"Maybe," she said slowly, "we could build it up there. Where the waves can't come."
"Good thinking," said Baba.
"But the sand up there is dry," said Kenz. "Dry sand falls apart."
"Hmm," said Baba. "Is there a way to bring wet sand up there?"
Kenz jumped up. "My bucket! I can carry the wet sand in my bucket!"
So that is what they did. Kenz filled her bucket with wet sand near the water and carried it up the beach, puffing and laughing. Baba carried some too, in his big hands. Mama joined in, and soon there was a big pile of wet sand far away from the waves.
Kenz built the towers again. This time she knew exactly how: fill, pat, flip, lift. Her second castle had five towers instead of four. She dug a moat around it, a little ring of water to protect it, and she carried water up in her bucket to fill it. She found new shells, even prettier than before, and a new feather for a flag.
"It's even better than the first one," said Mama.
Kenz looked at it with her head on one side. "It is better," she agreed, "because I learned how."
Later, when the sun was low and golden, a little boy with a yellow bucket came walking along the beach. He was building a castle very close to the water, right where Kenz had built her first one.
Kenz watched a wave sneak up and knock down his tower. The little boy's face crumpled.
Kenz ran over to him. "Don't be sad," she said kindly. "The sea isn't mean. It's just being the sea. Come up there with us, where the waves can't reach. I'll show you how to carry the wet sand."
The little boy wiped his eyes and nodded. Together they carried bucket after bucket, and Kenz showed him how to pat the top flat and lift the bucket very slowly.
By the time the sky turned pink, there were two castles side by side, and a long sandy wall joining them together.
"Our castles are friends," said the boy.
When it was time to go home, Kenz looked back one last time. The tide was coming in, but her castle stood safe and proud on the dry sand.
"Baba," she said in the car, sleepy and sandy, "when the first castle broke, I thought it was the worst day ever."
"And now?" asked Baba.
"Now I think it was the best day," Kenz yawned. "Because when something breaks, you can try again, and you can make it even better."
Lesson: When things go wrong, it's okay to feel sad. Then we can take a breath, think again, and try a better way.
"Today," said Kenz, "I am going to build the biggest sandcastle in the whole world."
Baba laughed. "The whole world is very big, habibti."
"Then it will be a very big castle," said Kenz.
She chose a spot close to the water, where the sand was smooth and wet and shiny. She took off her shoes and dug her toes into the cool sand. It felt like soft, cold cake.
First she filled her bucket with wet sand. She patted the top flat, pat, pat, pat. Then she turned the bucket over, quickly, and lifted it up very slowly.
A perfect tower stood on the beach!
"One tower!" she shouted.
She made a second tower, and a third, and a fourth. She dug a little path between them with her spade. She pressed seashells into the walls for windows: white shells, pink shells, and one striped shell like a tiny fan. She even found a long feather from a seagull and stuck it on the top of the tallest tower like a flag.
"It is a castle for a sea princess," Kenz told Mama.
"It's beautiful," Mama said. "You worked so hard."
Kenz stood back to look. She was so proud that she hopped from one foot to the other.
Then the sea sang a little louder. Swishhh.
A wave came running up the sand. It was a small wave, but it was very busy. It ran right into the first tower and knocked it down. Then it pulled back to the sea, taking half of the path with it.
"No!" cried Kenz. "Go away, wave! That is my castle!"
Another wave came. Swishhh. This one took two shell windows and the seagull feather.
Kenz's lip wobbled. Her eyes filled with tears. She stamped her bare foot in the wet sand.
"It's not fair! I worked so hard, and the sea is breaking everything!"
She sat down with a bump and cried into her hands.
Baba came and sat next to her. He did not tell her to stop crying. He just put his big warm arm around her shoulders and waited until her crying became small hiccups.
"It is very sad when something we made gets broken," he said. "Your castle was wonderful."
"The sea is mean," sniffed Kenz.
Baba looked out at the water. "The sea is not mean. The sea is just being the sea. It comes in and it goes out, every day, all over the world. It does not know about castles."
Kenz wiped her nose. "Then how can anyone build a castle at the beach?"
Baba smiled. "That is a very good question. What do you think? What could we do differently?"
Kenz thought. She looked at the place where her castle had been. It was wet and flat and full of foam. Then she looked further up the beach, where the sand was drier and the waves never reached.
"Maybe," she said slowly, "we could build it up there. Where the waves can't come."
"Good thinking," said Baba.
"But the sand up there is dry," said Kenz. "Dry sand falls apart."
"Hmm," said Baba. "Is there a way to bring wet sand up there?"
Kenz jumped up. "My bucket! I can carry the wet sand in my bucket!"
So that is what they did. Kenz filled her bucket with wet sand near the water and carried it up the beach, puffing and laughing. Baba carried some too, in his big hands. Mama joined in, and soon there was a big pile of wet sand far away from the waves.
Kenz built the towers again. This time she knew exactly how: fill, pat, flip, lift. Her second castle had five towers instead of four. She dug a moat around it, a little ring of water to protect it, and she carried water up in her bucket to fill it. She found new shells, even prettier than before, and a new feather for a flag.
"It's even better than the first one," said Mama.
Kenz looked at it with her head on one side. "It is better," she agreed, "because I learned how."
Later, when the sun was low and golden, a little boy with a yellow bucket came walking along the beach. He was building a castle very close to the water, right where Kenz had built her first one.
Kenz watched a wave sneak up and knock down his tower. The little boy's face crumpled.
Kenz ran over to him. "Don't be sad," she said kindly. "The sea isn't mean. It's just being the sea. Come up there with us, where the waves can't reach. I'll show you how to carry the wet sand."
The little boy wiped his eyes and nodded. Together they carried bucket after bucket, and Kenz showed him how to pat the top flat and lift the bucket very slowly.
By the time the sky turned pink, there were two castles side by side, and a long sandy wall joining them together.
"Our castles are friends," said the boy.
When it was time to go home, Kenz looked back one last time. The tide was coming in, but her castle stood safe and proud on the dry sand.
"Baba," she said in the car, sleepy and sandy, "when the first castle broke, I thought it was the worst day ever."
"And now?" asked Baba.
"Now I think it was the best day," Kenz yawned. "Because when something breaks, you can try again, and you can make it even better."
Lesson: When things go wrong, it's okay to feel sad. Then we can take a breath, think again, and try a better way.


